{"id":5715,"date":"2017-09-08T22:56:52","date_gmt":"2017-09-09T05:56:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/?p=5715"},"modified":"2017-09-09T22:39:43","modified_gmt":"2017-09-10T05:39:43","slug":"have-you-set-your-legacy-contact-on-facebook","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/archives\/5715","title":{"rendered":"Have you set your legacy contact on&nbsp;Facebook?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you&#8217;re one of the 2 billion users of Facebook, it might be a good time to set your account settings to include a &#8220;legacy contact&#8221;, basically someone who is able to access your account if you&#8217;re no longer around. I learned the hard way that having the login to Muriel&#8217;s account doesn&#8217;t actually make a difference because when Facebook finds out someone is deceased, they memorialize the account. Once they&#8217;ve &#8220;memorialized&#8221; a person&#8217;s account, even if you have the login, you can&#8217;t access the account. And since many of us spend time and have so many memories and connections via Facebook, to be locked out from it isn&#8217;t something you want to hear when you lose someone you love.<\/p>\n<p>To my surprise when I wrote to Facebook, someone actually responded within a few days&#8230; According to Facebook, its policy is to memorialize an account once the account owner has passed away. This helps protect the loved one&#8217;s privacy and preserves their account as a place for friends and family to gather and share memories. Once an account is memorialized, even Facebook isn&#8217;t able to:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Remove the account from its memorialized state<\/li>\n<li>Make changes to the Timeline or settings<\/li>\n<li>Provide login information<\/li>\n<li>Add friends to the account<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5718\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Screen-Shot-2017-06-15-at-12.40.49-PM.png\" alt=\"Screen Shot 2017-06-15 at 12.40.49 PM\" width=\"792\" height=\"330\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Screen-Shot-2017-06-15-at-12.40.49-PM.png 792w, https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Screen-Shot-2017-06-15-at-12.40.49-PM-150x63.png 150w, https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Screen-Shot-2017-06-15-at-12.40.49-PM-300x125.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Screen-Shot-2017-06-15-at-12.40.49-PM-768x320.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Screen-Shot-2017-06-15-at-12.40.49-PM-250x104.png 250w, https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Screen-Shot-2017-06-15-at-12.40.49-PM-550x229.png 550w, https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Screen-Shot-2017-06-15-at-12.40.49-PM-432x180.png 432w, https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Screen-Shot-2017-06-15-at-12.40.49-PM-720x300.png 720w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 792px) 100vw, 792px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So if you have a Facebook account, it&#8217;s probably a good idea to select a &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/help\/1568013990080948\">legacy contact<\/a>&#8220;. A legacy contact is someone you choose to look after your account if it&#8217;s memorialized. We didn&#8217;t get a chance to do this and I only found out about Facebook memorializing an account after <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/muriel-mon-amour\">Muriel passed away<\/a> &#8211; I&#8217;m still not sure when\/how Facebook did this as it seems someone would have had to report that she had passed away. From this experience, I think it&#8217;s a good idea to setup a legacy contact beforehand so that in case of your death this contact can:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Write a pinned post for your profile (example: to share a final message on your behalf or provide information about a memorial service).<\/li>\n<li>Respond to new friend requests (example: old friends or family members who weren&#8217;t yet on Facebook)<\/li>\n<li>Update your profile picture and cover photo<\/li>\n<li>Request the removal of your account<\/li>\n<li>Set the option for your legacy contact to download a copy of what you&#8217;ve shared on Facebook<\/li>\n<li>Note: You must be 19 or older to select a legacy contact.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Fortunately, I downloaded Muriel&#8217;s profile while I still was able to access her account, so I have a history of her life on Facebook. I wish I can gain access to make some changes, but unfortunately, I wasn&#8217;t able to set a legacy contact before I lost access&#8230; I hope this experience will help others out there be prepared because it sucks to be shut out of being able to remain &#8220;connected&#8221; with a loved one after he\/she has passed.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe one day Facebook will change it&#8217;s policy and allow spouses\/significant others\/family to be able to access an account even without a legacy contact. Like many things when losing someone we love, in spite of the pain and grief, it&#8217;s the people who live on that have to take care of the loved one&#8217;s affairs (even online ones).<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font: bold 11px\/20px 'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background: #bd081c no-repeat scroll 3px 50% \/ 14px 14px; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font: bold 11px\/20px 'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background: #bd081c no-repeat scroll 3px 50% \/ 14px 14px; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font: bold 11px\/20px 'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background: #bd081c no-repeat scroll 3px 50% \/ 14px 14px; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer; top: 619px; left: 50px;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font: bold 11px\/20px 'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background: #bd081c no-repeat scroll 3px 50% \/ 14px 14px; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font: bold 11px\/20px 'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background: #bd081c no-repeat scroll 3px 50% \/ 14px 14px; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font: bold 11px\/20px 'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background: #bd081c no-repeat scroll 3px 50% \/ 14px 14px; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font: bold 11px\/20px 'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background: #bd081c no-repeat scroll 3px 50% \/ 14px 14px; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font: bold 11px\/20px 'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background: #bd081c  no-repeat scroll 3px 50% \/ 14px 14px; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer; top: 619px; left: 50px;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you&#8217;re one of the 2 billion users of Facebook, it might be a good time to set your account settings to include a &#8220;legacy contact&#8221;, basically someone who is able to access your account if you&#8217;re no longer around. I learned the hard way that having the login to Muriel&#8217;s account doesn&#8217;t actually make &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/archives\/5715\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Have you set your legacy contact on&nbsp;Facebook?<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5719,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[124,269],"tags":[368,457,416,313,61,402],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5715"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5715"}],"version-history":[{"count":15,"href":"https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5715\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5747,"href":"https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5715\/revisions\/5747"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5719"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5715"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5715"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vincentfung.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5715"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}